Move to Kokkos 4.5

[brryan]

PR Summary

On Cray HPC machines with GPU direct I was running into Invalid count errors with MPI_Isend on at least the fine_advection example. This appears to be fixed with the Kokkos 4.5 release.

PR Checklist

• Code passes cpplint
• New features are documented.
• Adds a test for any bugs fixed. Adds tests for new features.
• Code is formatted
• Changes are summarized in CHANGELOG.md
• Change is breaking (API, behavior, ...)
  • Change is additionally added to CHANGELOG.md in the breaking section
  • PR is marked as breaking
  • Short summary API changes at the top of the PR (plus optionally with an automated update/fix script)
• CI has been triggered on Darwin for performance regression tests.
• Docs build
• (@lanl.gov employees) Update copyright on changed files

[bprather]

I can verify KHARMA also does not work when compiled with Parthenon develop + 4.4.01 but does with 4.5.00+. Same Invalid count error, which I'd seen before when upgrading Parthenon & Kokkos. Glad the current release fixes it.

[Yurlungur]

LGTM