Fixes #4066 - Selecting OpenMode "Directory" in FileDialog scenario causes exception

[YourRobotOverlord]

Allow hotkey specifier to be at any position in label

"D_irectory" doesn't work because hotPos is hardcoded 0

Fixes

• Fixes Selecting OpenMode "Directory" in FileDialog scenario causes exception #4066 - Selecting OpenMode "Directory" in FileDialog scenario causes exception

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