Use datalad-fuse's remfile backend when available

[CodyCBakerPhD]

Stacked on #1956. This tries the development version of datalad-fuse from datalad/datalad-fuse#131, which adds pluggable backends, including remfile for HDF5-based files.

Changes

• Adapter choice: get_adapter() uses datalad_fuse.adapter.RemoteFilesystemAdapter (dandiset.yaml: should become READONLY locally, with a comment, no metadata uploaded from it #131) when it is available, and falls back to the released datalad_fuse.fsspec.FsspecAdapter (0.5.1) otherwise.
  • With dandiset.yaml: should become READONLY locally, with a comment, no metadata uploaded from it #131 and remfile installed, NWB and other HDF5 files are read through remfile; other files still go through fsspec.
  • The backends can be configured with DataLad's datalad.fusefs.backends setting.
• S3 export fallback: get_annexed_readable() also tries the S3 exporttree URLs from dandiset.yaml: should become READONLY locally, with a comment, no metadata uploaded from it #131 when git-annex lists no URL, for older datasets that lack versioned S3 URLs.
• Docs: a note in the validate docs.
• Tests: test_annexed_readable_remfile checks that an NWB file is opened through datalad-fuse's RemfileWrapper and read with h5py over the local HTTP range server. It is skipped unless both dandiset.yaml: should become READONLY locally, with a comment, no metadata uploaded from it #131 and remfile are installed.
• CI: a new datalad-dev job installs git-annex, remfile and datalad-fuse from refs/pull/131/head. The existing datalad job keeps testing the PyPI release.

Locally, the datalad-fuse and validate stream tests pass with both datalad-fuse 0.5.1 (where the remfile test is skipped) and #131 plus remfile.

Once #131 is released, the CI install can switch to that release and the datalad extra's lower bound can be raised.

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