Add serverruntime crate and runnable single-user example

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Description

Create the server runtime process that hosts a single local Feder actor and provides the foundation for later HTTP, storage, and delivery work.

Scope

• Add a feder-runtime-linux crate or equivalent workspace package.
• Load basic local actor and server configuration.
• Construct FederCore from runtime configuration.
• Start a minimal server process/server with structured logging.
• Provide a documented cargo run -p ... development command.
• Keep runtime-specific dependencies out of feder-core and feder-vocab.

Done when

• A developer can start the server runtime locally with one configured actor.
• Startup validates required configuration and reports actionable errors.
• The portable crates remain no_std + alloc compatible.
• Basic runtime startup tests exist.

Out of scope

• ActivityPub routes and WebFinger.
• Persistent storage.
• HTTP Signatures and federation delivery.

Features to add

• Workspace crate feder-runtime-server
• Server entry point which starts a process/server
• Config module + load from env variables
• Error handling
• Core construction
• Minimal server
• Tests
• Documentation